Confessions - Relationship Issues

"I'm so tired and it upsets me to talk to you or spend time with you, and we just aren't right for each other, but I'm afraid to break up with you because I keep lying and saying that I love you when I don't think I ever have, and I'm afraid you'll do something drastic because you keep saying I'm the only reason you're still here and I don't hate you or want you to give up, I just don't want to be a part of your world anymore"

"I get annoyed & frustrated everytime you look,stare,eyeballing/eyelusting the hell out of other girls even on TV.And you wonder why I'm always insecure, always keeping up In my appearance, changing my looks,hell, wasting so much money on endless beauty products to make me look better or look like those girls you keep rubbernecking with. Even going to certain extremes having to affect my health. You say you don't care about those things & that looks don't really matter but you know that's false and I see & notice the little subtle things & signs that you do without you realizing it."

"I know you love me. I know you are infatuated with me. I know you are literally planning your future to be with me. I am not sure I feel the same way. I no longer have any interest in kissing or hugging you. You cause me stress and I am tired. I am constantly trying to find ways to distract myself from you. I know this is unfair, and I hate that I have to do this. But I feel we need to break up. You can hate me, hit me, and blame me, as it is all my fault. I am sorry."

"I'm sorry I don't feel the same. I lobe you and we've been together too long and you're too broken for me to leave you, but I'm not sure I want to be with you forever anymore. I've never been with anyone else, and I've never been without you since middle school. I think i just need to find out who I am. Im sorry"

"i love you and care about you but its hard to tell if you feel the same. it feels like are relationship over at times. i just wish you could be honest with me and clear about how you feel about us. maybe i feel like this because of myself currently or there is an actual issue but i would honestly just want a clear answer on what we are and where we are are going, you know?"

"I don't know but you are trying to turn me into something I m not really . before I was an energetic young woman but I don't see my own future now I have to often walk on eggshells. I hate drama which I have to go through on a daily basis with u . my health deteroits both physically and mentally. u love me and I knw that but I cant be in an emotionally draining relationships . I have turn really suicidal and I need some space because I am already losing myself and already showing signs of bpd "

"I really don't know what I want. It changes from day to day, and sometimes minute to minute. I just don't feel the same way anymore, and I'm constantly looking for a way to make this work because I care about you and the thought of hurting you hurts me. Things just aren't the same — I'm not the same, our relationship isn't the same, and you're not the same. I keep jerking you around and telling you different things and that's not fair to you. I need to be alone to figure out what it is I really want. "

"if we still aint got it right a decade and a half later then the chances are itll never be, if you really do care at all about me even if it only a a teeny tiny bit then Pleeeease just cut me lose and let me go already, show me u give a damb about me and the kids by Walking Away so we have a chance"

"Listen to what I'm saying and not what you think I'm saying and stop criticising me and stop making me feel like I'm an idiot "

"venting is not a competition I just need you to listen sometimes. just because I'm not crying doesn't mean I'm not hurting. please just listen to me "

"I love him so much but it feels like he don't love me all we do is fight all the time we have been together for so long and we are only 21 right now we have baby boys yes he works hard and is always gone but I want you to play and help me with them sometimes it feels like I'm a single mother and I'm so worried your out there on the road all the time and your gonna cheat on me I don't know why I think that all the time but I do I wish I could see you more but I can't when we go out seems like your embarrassed I'm your wife maybe because I have gained weight I don't know what to do anymore "

"I want to be alone. But i do not want to hurt you. Staying in this relationship is draining me and my depression is getting worse daily because of it. I can't go on anymore."

"She loves me more than anyone I have ever met, but just like so many others, she hurts me so much. "

"Why would you hurt me mentally and physically you are draining every inch of life out of me when I try with all my might to do everything for you but get nothing in return you do drugs spend hardly any time with me so why am I still here :( because I love you and the thought of not have you there scares me more than what I am already"

"I miss what we had. We were best friends. :/"

"He deserves better than me"

"I love you. I've loved you more and more each day since the moment we met. But, if you're not happpy, I can't keep holding you back."

"I wish you could communicate and be honest with me. if you don't want me anymore I wish you would just say so. I don't like being strung along."

"I thought you were everything I wanted, but I now see that it was all in my head. Reality hit hard, and I hope that I won't be fooled the next time."

"I don't even want to talk to you. I just don't care anymore. I feel like I tried for so long and it just isn't good enough. I'm not a housewife, I want to go out with someone and really LIVE in this world, but you just go to work and go home, every day. And then, on your days off you spend no time with me except to run errands. I can run errands alone, but I'm just trying to spend time with you. The only fun we have is as individuals, never together anymore."

"Can you empathize with others? Can you go beyond what you are feeling in your interactions with other people? It often does not feel that way. "

"Maybe you should learn commitments, I loved you, but it hurts whenever I am near you. It just feels like I'm nothing more than an acquaintance. "

"I know I wasn't the best .nor the most honest person.and I also know I dont have any reason for telling you to come back ...but if I had a chance to get you to come back I'd take it with out thinking "

"He doesn't care about me or try at all, it's been 14 months and I'm sick and tired of it all, it weighs me down non stop!"

"I dont know what happened "

"you put this void inbetween us. Im trying to make this work and make affection apart of this relationship. yet you dont even want to touch me. I work hard to keep myself beautiful but you still cant find it in you to want to have more than just a roomate type relationship. If you just want me to pay half the bills, fuck It. Find yourself a real roomate instead of lying about love. cause i dont feel any love. i dont even feel you."

"I love you and your child why can't you see all the things I do for you? I never get anything in return. Nothing... You say you worry about me and money and the future. Seriously I work my Ass off now to make you happy and you are worried about that? "

"I keep hurting you through my own stupid mistakes of hurting myself and it kills me inside that u worry about me and my lastest stunt I did really upset u n rocked the boat"

"You need to wake up and be your own person. If you want to be with someone don't be so secretive. "

"I know that love is a hard thing for anyone, but you know that I have been through things that make it even harder for me. Yet the way that you treat me makes me feel like you neither care not understand what my past abuse has done to me. You can't even look me in the eye when I'm spilling my heart out. I can't live like this. I need to be loved, understood, and respected by someone who DESERVES ME"

"I love more than anything and I always will, but we need to be alone to work out our own issues. I think you still have a lot to discover and resolve about yourself, and I do too, before we can be in a relationship like this."

"I hate the way you always make plans with me and then fuck me off go yours friends. Like when we have a free house and make plans to have a nice night in, but like a day after you make plans for your friends to come round and then claim you forgot! Or like the time I asked you to go out to a restaurant with me on a Saturday and then you made plans with your friend and want to the same restaurant with your friend. In the whole 2 years we have been going out I have never done that to you but you do it all time time. You also forgot our 2 year anniversary so it just shows home much more I care than you do."

"Ive told you what was wrong with our relationship and you always say it will change. You still havent done a thing. The only good part about our relationship is the sex and a few playful moments. Its not enough though. It just feels like something is missing."

"I love him.. But I don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. My life is heading a different direction than his. He rarely wants to go out, and he overreacts about stupid things constantly. I don't know if I can deal with him anymore."

"I hate that the same argument keeps popping up and I always feel 2 inches tall afterwards."

"The time that i came home from being on the road for two weeks....i parked my truck at the store....i saw you walk out of the store, get into your Car and drive away....i watched you the whole time, you never looked my way and i know you knew i was there....i mean im in a big fuckin semi. While all this went down, we had been texting, i thought you were still home, you never mentioned that you were going to town......you couldnt take 5 seconds to drive over to my truck, hug me, kiss me and say that youd be right back, that you were just taking your daughter to drivers ed.....no...you drove away. "

"I deserve better. I have no baggage and you have more than most. "

"I love you so much, it's just that so many of my friends say I'm dating a hoe. A girl who doesn't respect her relationship. I need some time alone I can't go on like this. You cut your self and lie to me. You tell me that your fine when your not I'm here for you but I seems like I'm not good enough. I don't know what to do, I really love you. Please believe me when I say I care and love you."

"I love you and you love me we both know this. Why are you so quick to just walk away when we have one misunderstanding? We have really great times together and even when it's bad it's not that bad. We never raise our voices or disrespect each other. Misunderstanding happen you are an extremely intelligent man you know that. Don't give up on us so easily. Or any other aspect of your life. I wish you could see in yourself what i see. It's a part of learning and growing. One day you'll see, for now I'm going to try to help you see. "

"I love you I'm just so tired of feeling lonely even when you are laying next to me. I have told you how I felt and you didn't do anything to change it. I'm sad it has to be this way but I can't wait around forever waiting for the day you will give me the love and attention I need."

"I really need you to let me know what's happening...do you really still want me? I can feel that things are changing...is it something I've done? Tell me because I'm hurting...tell me before I leave."

"I wish he loved me like he used to , but I have a feeling he loves her and I know it when i see it , this is how all my relationships end. they fall in love with another girl and don't tell me till I figure it out myself, I don't want to give up but I also cant do this. I don't now what I want but all I know that it isn't this, I wish I knew what to do , but I think I got to end it but I don't want to be the one to , I love him, I have had the worst last 5 monthes and my life fell apart completely and the last thing to fall was him and he knew that and he still fell , without him I don't know what to do the problem is I made him my happiness and that's where I went wrong because he said he would always be there for me , he hasn't noticed that I lost the weight again or the long sleeves because he is to busy laughing with his "friend" who is a girl and once I leave I am sure within 5 hours she is his gf , no one noticed I fell apart again but no one would care if they knew anyway. that's the part that hurts with him I am hurt and not quite alone but it hurts without him I am hurt and completely alone and at this point I don't know which one is worse. but this isn't right and I wish it could go my way for once "

"he doesn't realize I cry every time we are done talking I just make sure he doesn't see the tears everyone else can tell how much pain I am in but he doesn't see it and it breaks my heart everyday"

"I would like to say that if we do break up, it'll be your fault because they are for reasons you could of changed."

"I just wish that I could get a straight answer from you. I'm getting tired of you being all over the place."

"I feel like im putting in more than im getting out"

"I feel like your making a fool out of me."

"You make me cry too much"

"I'm Just not as happy anymore as I used to be and I'm looking for an attraction deeper than sex"

"I hate how you always find the one thing that makes me angry and use it for your amusement. I hate that you laugh in my face when I'm clearly upset at you or about something. I don't exist for your entertainment. I know you aren't perfect and I know I'm not either, but I would never treat you the way you treat me."

"I wish you treated me more like a partner than a friend. I wish I was as important to you as you are to me."

"I'm not sure if we are going to work out much longer"

"I wish that you could say, I love you, without hesitation. Age is strictly just a number, you should be more confident. I wish that you would let me pay for some stuff, stop talking about your ex - the only person who can change that relationship is yourself, I understand you have kids, but they are at the adult age."

"I hate how you make me not have any friends or family I hate how you tear down my self confidence I hate how I love you more than I love myself I hate how rude you are I hate how easily you got mad I hate so many things that you do I hate rubbing your stupid ducking feet and I hate your job and I hate how greedy you are with you money you're just a spoiled little brat that I love so much fuck you"

"I loved you more than you loved me"

"Why won't you talk to me?"

"I do love you. I have lost almost all my friends partially because of you. I miss being single and sensing the thrill of the chase. I am scared that if we break up I will never get over it, yet I don't want to stop loving you. The thought of meeting you after a while and not having anything to say to you breaks my heart. I am sometimes bored out of my mind when we are together. I really don't know what to do."

"Were just a highschool love and you're way to clingy and i feel like you dont have a life outside of seeing me im so sorry i have to do this to you "

"I'm not in love with you anymore.... Im sorry."

"I love you but things get crazy between us and what do I do that you can't trust me and get mad all the time?"

"I've never met someone with the ability to make small problems and issues into major problems. The emotional strain of maintaining this relationship is too costly. Especially given my current family issues. I need to be able to decompress and I do not have that space in my life befause I am always accountable for my actions around you. One unrequited kiss and you are off the handle upset. This is no way to move through life. It is simply too much. I'm not at a point in my life where I can put in the type of energy it would require to make this work. To continue moving forward. We can only "start over" so many times before we must be able to recognize this is not working. 4 phone calls in one morning is ridiculous. "

"I really do care for you, but you are not willing to ensure I get what I need out of our relationship. Our views are very different and you don't talk to me about your problems."

"I think we should break up"

"You are so obsessing. It seems like you never want to do the right thing. I just don't know what to do. "

"I love you but it's obvious this isn't working. "

"Im sorry but i just dont think i want to spend the rest of my life with you it feels as if i am growing apart from you. "

"I fucking hate the way u are with me I wish I could say some of the shit to your face but I can't cause I hide everything from you. "

"I wish you could stop putting me second best and placing your friends in a higher esteem than I am to you. Most of all, I wish you could think about how I feel sometimes instead of just thinking about yourself."

"You've hurt me with a lie."

"Sometimes I wish you'd grow up and start taking life seriously. I feel like you don't love me enough to get to know me inside and out."

"I wish you would make me a priority and spend time with me, and maybe tell me I'm beautiful every once in a while. "

"I hate love..."

"You never make time for me. You want to keep me inside your home, but never in public. Why is it that you can make more time for your friends, but not me; I feel like I need a reservation to see you. I'm not asking to be your number one priority, but a little more focus and care into our relationship from you would be greatly appreciated. You know, a relationship is a partnership, not a job. "

"i feel like we don't connect like we used to. we used to be best friends but now we are just like... idk even know anymore."

"I wish you'd actually treat me like you loved me. I wish that you loved me more than the drugs and cared about my opinions. I wish I could trust you."

"I'm not sure about us, I'm worried I might grow old never really sure"

"im not happy and i think wed both be happier if we were not together and just being friends. your an important person in my life, but to the magnitude you see me"

"Im sorry but this isnt working for me anymore, I think where i am now is a worst place then before when we talked. I am not attracted to you anymore, I sont love you, and i dont see a future with you romantically as i did earlier on."

"I don't know why you're breaking up with me. We've been dating for less than a month, and you say "We don't see some things eye to eye". Most people don't see eye to eye on some things, that's human nature! A relationship with a person who you completely agree with would become stifling and flat. Like soda left on the counter. I think that, considering that's your only concern, that this relationship is worth fighting for. You also say that you don't want me to change for you. Hey, people change people! Development, self improvement? These are essential components of a relationship. Unless you're wanting me to take up smoking (Which, you know I'm allergic to secondhand smoke, imagine how I'd react to first-hand.) or something, I think we'd be good. Is it your aunt? Are you afraid? Well guess what, I'm scared too. None of my family, outside of my cousin Molly, my sibs, and my mom know that I'm a lesbian. She's basically forbidden me from telling anyone else until her parents die, which is okay, I get that she just wants them to die believing that they had a normal, christian family, and that's why she doesn't tell them that she and I are atheist, but it hurts. I can't even ask anybody older than me, who knows my mind, for advice on how to deal with this. My mom's straight as a rod, your mom is bisexual, at least you've got someone to talk to. And I don't know how you're just letting this end! We've got a good thing, genuine chemistry! Also, just imagine how disappointed Jacob will be, after all, we're together 'cause of him. I really like you, and I think I love you. I wouldn't say I'm 'in love' with you, but I love you. Loving someone is when your heart has made a connection with another person's heart. Being in love with someone is when your heart has made an INVESTMENT in theirs. I love your sense of humor, and your obsession with candy, and your clever way of wearing glitter on your lipgloss. You are unique, and I want to be with you. If this is the end of our relationship, we'll still be friends, but I can't tell you how much it would hurt me to see you in a relationship with someone else, when you were, for however brief a time, mine. I'll get over you, if this really is the end. I always do. But...I'm still going to try and make this relationship work."

"My feelings are slowly fading away"

"I'm sorry for doing this to you. I want you to be happy. I was not satisfied with our relationship and it kills me to admit it. You are an amazing girl in nearly every respect. I need to figure out what I want. I am so sorry."

"If you would care as much as you did in the beginning things would be better. I have never felt so used and betrayed in my life. This is not the life I had planned for us. Your selfishness must come to an end, stop thinking of yourself and think of us."

"I think you're a really nice, sweet guy but the emotional weight you carry around is too much for me. And I feel like a dog on a chain where you want to run and I just want to walk. I wish I could be there for you the way you need me to but I'm not the person you think I am and I'm so sorry for that. "

"I wish I knew what it really is, I wish you could care enough to tell me instead of doing everything you can to make it my fault. "

"I hate that you always choose your friends over me. You said we would hang out today but went out with your boys at the last minute. I'm tired of always trying to work on our issues. I'm tired of always thinking that you're gonna try and make an effort. You're a good guy but I'm disappointed that I'm usually the last thing on your mind. I don't wanna fight for your attention. I'll be second when it comes to your family because I'll never make you choose me over them but I don't wanna be second when it comes to your friends. I've always made time for you, why can't you do the same for me?"

" I love you but I'm not in love with you. I will always care for you. I feel bad about what I am doing. I feel more like your counselor than your girlfriend. i would like you to help yourself more and someday see that there is good in you no matter what anyone else says."

"I wish we could completely listen to each other"

"I love you, I really do. But the way you hardly talk to me anymore and don't seem to make an effort to spend time with me makes me question if you actually care about being with me.."

"I am so scared to leave you. We live together. What would I do? How do I get over you when we share a house? I moved 500km for you and now we don't oven share the same bed. I'm with you in this house but alone in a room where the light switch is broken and there is no space. I wish you'd make up your mind. Are we together or not? I'm crying constantly now. There's no way I can win. If you'll leave me just hurry up and do it but do it now because I committed myself to you, and confessed I want to be life partners. I still love you."

"I love you with all my heart but I cannot trust you at all."

"We fight all the time and I can't do it. I can't deal with this."

"I am deeply in love with you and I know I will always love you, but that doesn't mean I can stay with you for the rest of my life. Before all the arguing, if you asked me to marry you and just runaway together I would have said yes, no second guessing myself. Yet now so many things have changed. When you get angry at me I am afraid you might throw me around again or pull me away from the door if I try to leave for some air. I know that you are in love with me and that you get scared a lot of the time but that doesn't give you the right to put your hands on me or call me a 'whore' and 'slut'. I know that I am no saint either, I know that I have my short comings but I don't deserve that. I don't want to be sad when I go to bed anymore because I know my relationship is slowly deteriorating and you don't want to see that. I shouldn't have said the things I said about you and I should always try to be there for you. I can say I am sorry until my face turns blue and purple but that is never enough for you. You have this little imagine of how you want me but I don't know if i can fit that imagine anymore.."

"It drives me crazy when you tell me that you want to put my feelings and concerns ahead of yours because you'll get over it. It implies that I won't. I hate when you don't take care of yourself. I hate that I feel like I'm constantly going out of my way to spontaneously take care of anything you could want or need and you ask me why I won't "let" you take care of me. I hate that it feels like you don't have the ambition to care for me other than complaining that I won't "let" you."

"Things happen for a reason. If you leave me then it's your loss. I'll miss you but I don't need my heart broken anymore."

"i love you but i'm not sure if this is going to last..."

"I love you with every fiber of my being, and there will always be a place for you in my heart. It's just, i dont feel special anymore. Remember when you used to tell me it looked like my eyes were drawn on, and i was the prettiest girl youve ever seen? I miss that, i miss you looking deep into my eyes while touching my face and whispering that you love me. Ive also been feeling like youre putting your friends before me. I know you dont like having someone to answer to, and i dont like nagging, but its a big deal if youre staying at a chicks house all night. Its also a big deal to ask me to take the bus so you can take her to the beach. I dont want to lose you, but i also dont want to be treated like second best, i love you too much for that. Whatever happens, i will always love you, and never forget the love youve shown me. But please baby, for me just try.. "

"If u made me a part of your life without barriers and limits things would be beautiful"

"He is always talking about his Ex's and compared me to them. He also lies to me about pointless things and sometimes tells me to shut up and kind of treats me poorly from time to time unless I get upset then he stops for a bit then does it again. It bothers me."

"I love u so much and i know u love me but things are so bad between us and have been for over a year. I feel like all the pressure is on me. I work part time and in full time study. u dont do anything. In between all that i am contantly running up and down to u. U wont come visit me. I have to juggle work, college, seeing my family and seeing u. U make demands on me to be at ur house for a certain time. Im scared to tell u when i have to go to work because u complain thats i spend less time with u. I stay with u more than i stay in my own house. Ur addicted to drugs and i accepted that but now its affecting me. U cant always afford ur drugs which leads to u asking me for money which i cant always afford to do but if i dont help u dont want me anymore. U constanly scream at me and be moody, anything i do isnt good enough for u. I do anything u ask but its a struggle to get u to do something for me. Ur temper is so bad its causing violence. U blame everything on me and always want to be right. Im scared to look or talk to anyone because of the way u would react. Ur so controlling. I know im not perfect but i do my best to make u happy and usually dont answer back to u to help avoid arguements. I dont know what to do anymore, i love u but i know things cannot continue like this."

"I do love you but i don't know anymore."

"To be totally honest I just can't put myself into a relationship with you right now, when I say I'm scared of commitment I don't mean that my last breakup left me broken-hearted or anything I mean that being in a committed relationship makes me feel trapped and I just want to have some meaningless fun with people as far as relationships go. I'm sorry."

"You're so manipulative, and I don't even think you realize it, but when you constantly make self-conscious comments and then outright tell me to make you feel better about yourself I feel like you're repeatedly slapping me in the face. I can't support you that much, and making me feel like I'm doing wrong because of that is hurting me a lot. I thought I could handle these issues but I can't, it's tearing me apart."

"I'm sorry for being a dick and I really do care about you a lot, I've just tried so much and I don't know if you're the right person for me. "

"You control and contort me to fit into your future life. We have too many different views about our future and life. I feel you don't genuinely listen to me."

"I love him but his family is breaking us up."

"Why did you stop wanting to have sex with me?"

"You take me for granted, maybe i do not accept you for who you are or maybe i hate myself too much to allow to be loved."

"I love you more than you think but I wish that you can be more of a man and not a boy."

"You are extremely hard to talk to a lot of the time. You freak out over nothing. You hurt my feelings more than you realize. You were lucky to have me. You never deserved me. I deserve better than you. "

"You love me so much and I REALLY wish I could feel the same about you. I so badly don't want to hurt you, but I think that I would be happier without you. I can't decide if my happiness is more important to me then yours. :("

"I can't see you. I want to but that's impossible. I can't date you. I miss you. You're to immature for me but I care for you. I want to break it off but I don't want to hurt you."

"I still really like you but I kinda wish we were just friends because ive started to realise my feelings for another girl who I'm close to and she seems more like the person id like to date but I don't want to break your heart by breaking up with you!"

"It's too much for me to continue being with someone so fickle. I don't deserve to have to cry myself to sleep while you get to go to bed without even thinking of it again. I need the stability of someone who will want me around everyday and won't leave me to wonder whether or not they'll love me on a given day. I waited for you through what no one else would have, and yet you treat our relationship like a burden. I don't think this is working anymore, and although it pains me to imagine my life without you, I'm letting you go. I just don't have the fight anymore. "

"I love you but I'm not sure we are compatible."

"Whale, honestly, you say you'll always be there for me yet you freak out when finding something out about me you don't like. You judge me for being myself after saying I was "perfect". Honey, that was most likely your light saber talking if you know what I mean. I don't tell you things because you don't accept me for me. Your actions speak louder than your words and it's time to let this showdown go. ~~"

"You always compare me to your exs. Point out the fact I dont have the best body out of all the people you know. You have done nothing but lie to me about meeting up with other people from dating websites then say you can get away from them because the website is part of your life. Well guess what so was I and all you did was ignore me, treat me like I was nothing but a moron who had nothing to offer you."

"You really don't listen to me. Don't tell me to shut up when I'm not the one doing 90% of the talking. "

"I wish you were not so hypocritical and contradicting. You said I could talk to you about anything, but every time I try, I feel like you either belittle what I'm saying, don't listen or try to relate everything back to yourself. I feel like I have nothing more to give and it's never enough or the right way."

"I'm struggling with the the fact that my boyfriend is still really good friends with his Ex. I'm not usually the jealous type but I always get suspicious when they talk to each other. I want to confront him and tell him how it makes me feel but I am too scared. "

"If you want to love me now, then you have to learn to love my past. Because the struggles I went through yesterday made me who I am today."

"You just can't accept me when I'm down or when I'm not perfect."